Learning to surrender.

 

In plain English? Stop trying so hard to make it happen.

 

Oof easier said than done, huh. 

 

It wasn’t that long ago that I spent 10 years trying so hard to lose weight, 9 years single trying so hard to find a boyfriend, and 7 years unfulfilled trying so hard to find my purpose in corporate America.

 

Suffice it to say: I’ve been there. I tried so many things to change my life, but it only got me one thing: more stress.

 

Can you relate? I know how frustrating it can be to pour so much time, money, and energy into getting what you want, but not have all your efforts pay off yet.

 

The good news, it doesn’t have to stay that way. All of these things I mention have since happened in my life (yay!), but not at all in the ways I tried so hard to make them:

 

• I lost weight only after I stopped dieting and over-exercising.

• I fell in love only after I stopped dating to “find my person.”

• I found my purpose only after I gave up trying to find it in corporate America.

 

All of a sudden, it hit me. When I stop trying so hard, I get what I was so desperately trying to achieve, but with less effort. I know how it sounds, but I didn’t just sit back and wait for a miracle without any action on my part. I also didn’t force positive affirmations in the mirror or journal about my future self every day.

 

Which begs the question, “What DID I do?!”

 

Maybe you’re like me. You don’t want to be told to just surrender or relax, you want to know HOW.

 

The truth is this. There is not ONE right way and that’s why I offer Internal Family Systems (IFS) as my approach to coaching.

 

This sought-after, evidence-based approach to healing and growth is not about me giving you all the answers.  Instead, I guide you through a subconscious and somatic journey where your inner world lays out the exact blueprint of how you can soften and relax into your potential.

 

Doesn’t that make so much sense? Through personalized 1:1 coaching where you learn how to partner with your unique inner world and nervous system instead of trying to change and override it all the time, life starts to get better and better without so much effort.

 

This Chinese proverb says it best: Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.

 

So who are you going to invest in? The version of you that…

 

A) Has big potential but keeps doing the most without much to show for it

 

or the version of you that…

 

B) Learns to relax into her worth and fulfills her potential with ease

 

Choose your adventure now, you can thank me later: 

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1 Week of Coaching for $150 includes:

• One 60-minute session with Hadley

• Followed by 1 week of back-and-forth voice messaging on Voxer

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1 Month of Coaching for $550 includes:

• Four 60-minute sessions with Hadley

• 4 weeks of back-and-forth voice messaging on Voxer

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Coaching spots open in early 2024— and the best part? The smarties on the waitlist get 50% off their first package. You need in, like, yesterday.